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Emotional incest Your oldest child is not your built in babysitter. Your son is not your surrogate PARTNER. Your kids are not your therapists —- there are many situations where kids should STAY IN A CHILDS PLACE- & discussing bills & finances is one of those places. Your child should not feel pressured to help you figure out how to keep your damn lights on! Your child should not be taking care of YOUR DAMN KIDS because you wanna go out & be an ADULT. Your kids should not be “teaching you HOW TO LOVE” they are YOUR KIDS—- YOU are the one who is supposed to GUIDE THEM. No matter their age —— it’s not a child’s responsibility to reach out to their parents!! It’s a difference between teaching your kids how to be responsible & forcing your responsibilities on them. Your ten year old should not be frying chicken. Your kids are not your maids! They should be doing chores applicable for their age range. And quiet as it’s kept this is the reason why a lot of parents ignore when their kids tell them somebody touched them! You see your child as an adult over there with your real grown ahh calling a child FASTu002FMANNISH!!!!!! Where you think they get it from????????? Kids learn all their behaviors from THEIR PARENTS & the people their parents allow AROUND THEM. No it’s not just the media!